摘要：你該結(jié)婚嗎?你是男人嗎?先回答第二個(gè)問題。如果第二個(gè)答案是"yes"的話，那么第一個(gè)答案明顯是"No"。 實(shí)際上，婚姻遠(yuǎn)非人們所想。過去幾十年，結(jié)婚這種神圣而古老的婚戀習(xí)俗已逐漸退化為一場(chǎng)噩夢(mèng)，純粹勞力傷財(cái)，尤其是對(duì)男性來講。

　　Should you ever get married? Are you a man?Answer the second question first. If the answer tothe second question is "Yes", then the obviousanswer to the first question is, "NO!" The fact is,marriage has never been all that it's cracked up tobe. And in the past few decades, this venerable oldinstitution has actually degenerated even furtherinto an absolute soul and wallet draining wakingnightmare, especially for the male of the species.

　　There used to be a great many practical and logistical reasons why marriage was an idealarrangement (albeit, from vastly different points of view) for both men and women. However,in the 21st century, the majority of those reasons have passed into the murky mists ofhistory. Today, it simply makes more sense not to get married. It's one thing to fall in love,another to surrender your emotional and economic freedom.

　　你該結(jié)婚嗎?你是男人嗎?先回答第二個(gè)問題。如果第二個(gè)答案是"yes"的話，那么第一個(gè)答案明顯是"No"。 實(shí)際上，婚姻遠(yuǎn)非人們所想。過去幾十年，結(jié)婚這種神圣而古老的婚戀習(xí)俗已逐漸退化為一場(chǎng)噩夢(mèng)，純粹勞力傷財(cái)，尤其是對(duì)男性來講。

　　曾經(jīng)，許多現(xiàn)實(shí)原因表明婚姻對(duì)男女來說都是最理想的安排(盡管從不同方面來講)。然而，在21世紀(jì)，大多數(shù)這些原因已經(jīng)消失在歷史的迷霧中。如今，不結(jié)婚更合乎情理。畢竟，相愛是一回事， 放棄情感及經(jīng)濟(jì)自由又是另一回事。

　　10.She's Going To Gain Weight, No Matter What (So Are You, By The Way)

　　10.不管怎樣，她會(huì)增重(隨便提一下，你也會(huì))

　　If she gets pregnant, she's obviously going to gain weight (Score one for all you CaptainObvious fans). But, even if you remain childless, the both of you are going to gain weight. Infact, in many ways, the first five years of a marriage are a slow but steady race to see who canlet themselves go the farthest, for the longest amount of time, with the fewest possiblerepercussions.

　　如果她懷孕，那她肯定會(huì)增重(這顯而易見)。但即使不要孩子，你倆也會(huì)增重。實(shí)際上，在很多方面，結(jié)婚頭五年像一場(chǎng)緩慢持久的比賽，看誰走得更遠(yuǎn)，堅(jiān)持最久，受影響最小。

　　According to a recent study conducted by the University of Queensland in Australia, women wholive with a partner (in this case, let's go ahead and read husband) tend to gain more weightthan women who live completely alone. Is it hard to understand why this should be?

　　據(jù)澳大利亞昆士蘭大學(xué)的一項(xiàng)最新研究表明，與伴侶同住的女性(這種情況，我們可進(jìn)一步稱之為丈夫)比獨(dú)居的女性更易增重。很難理解為什么是這樣嗎?

　　No, it really isn't. The fact is, women who are in a secure, exclusive, and committedrelationship, particularly one that has been formalized with a legal ceremony and a weddingring, feel no twinge of guilt whatsoever in gradually letting of the svelte little bod they had onoffer back in your courtin' days. And, honestly, are they wrong? Is a gain of ten pounds goingto nullify your wedding vows? Do you have a leg to stand on in court over this trifling matter?

　　不，不難理解。實(shí)際上，處于安全、專一、忠誠的男女關(guān)系中的女性，尤其是舉行過婚禮、佩戴婚戒的已婚女士，完全不會(huì)為失去熱戀期間小巧、曼妙的身姿而痛心、愧疚。但實(shí)話說，她們(這樣)有錯(cuò)嗎?增重十磅違背結(jié)婚誓言了嗎?你會(huì)為這區(qū)區(qū)小事而對(duì)簿公堂嗎?

　　Of course, the female side is taking the brunt of the argument in this particular scenarioprecisely because this article is being written from the male point of view. Trust us, tough guy,women notice when you pack on the pounds as well.

　　當(dāng)然，這篇文章從男性角度來講，女性無疑是爭(zhēng)論焦點(diǎn)。相信我，型男，你增重時(shí)，女士也會(huì)格外注意。

　　9.Marriage Shuts Down All Other Possible Options, Permanently

　　9.婚姻永久斬?cái)嘁磺衅渌赡?/p>

　　Not sure what you're getting into? Don't know how you really feel about not having the luxuryof keeping all your other options open? Not keen on consigning your "Little Black Book" to theflames? In short, are you getting more than just the normally described case of cold feet overyou impending nuptials?

　　不確定你會(huì)面對(duì)什么?不知道放棄其他一切可能感覺如何?不想把"愛情黑名單"付之一炬?簡(jiǎn)言之，你比普通所說的婚前恐懼感受更深嗎?

　　If this is the case, it's more than an ominous sign for the future of your marriage. We'd say it'smore in the line of a direct express telegram from the Bachelor Deity, warning you to shake offthe chains before they bind you fast in the fetters of unsuitable monogamy.

　　假如真是如此，那么這遠(yuǎn)不止是你婚姻生活的不祥之兆。在神學(xué)士的自白表達(dá)中更為多見，警告你趕緊松手，以免陷入婚姻的枷鎖，被一夫一妻制所轄制。

　　Marriage means an end to all the casual dates (and the casual sex). Marriage means that youwake up with the same person, morning after morning, after love making, after arguing, aftermany nights of sheer, soul lacerating boredom. Marriage demands the state of monogamy,which, from a male point of view, may as well be more accurately labeled, "monotony". It's theend of your freedom and all of your options.

　　婚姻意味著所有臨時(shí)約會(huì)(和隨意性交)的終結(jié)。結(jié)婚意味著你在隨后無數(shù)個(gè)早晨都將和同一個(gè)女人一起醒來，不管你們昨晚是做愛，吵架還是無聊至極?；橐鲂枰?quot;一夫一妻"，從男性角度講，"單調(diào)乏味"也許更為貼切?；橐鍪悄阕杂珊退羞x擇的終點(diǎn)。

　　To put it bluntly, when you enter into the bonds of marriage, you're stuck with each other, untildeath do you part. There's a reason that these phrases sound so ominous and so final –they're designed to be. Of course, nowadays the radical cure of divorce is far more easilyavailable than it used to be. But if you're already reassuring yourself with such thoughts thisearly in the game, it's just another little hint that you really aren't ready for the bigcommitment.

　　說穿了，步入婚姻，夫妻雙方彼此束縛，只有死亡才可分離。這話聽起來很不妙也很絕對(duì)—因?yàn)樗鼈冏⒍ㄈ绱?。?dāng)然，如今離婚處理起來比以往容易得多。但還未結(jié)婚你就用這樣的想法給自己打氣，這只能說你還沒為婚姻做好充分準(zhǔn)備。

　　8.Getting Shacked Up Will Empty Your Wallet For Years To Come

　　8.就同居這事兒，就能讓你窮上好幾年

　　The average total cost of a wedding in the United States is currently in excess of ,000.

　　現(xiàn)如今，在美國，平均的婚禮開支已經(jīng)超過了三萬美元。

　　According to a recent survey published by CNN on their official website, the total costs of theaverage American wedding break down as follows:

　　CNN在其官方網(wǎng)站上進(jìn)行了一項(xiàng)調(diào)查發(fā)現(xiàn)，美國人的婚禮開支由以下幾個(gè)部分構(gòu)成：

　　,000 to rent the venue where the event will be held.

　　婚禮場(chǎng)地租金：14000美元

　　,800 to buy the ring.

　　婚戒：5800美元

　　,500 to hire the band.

　　樂隊(duì)：3500美元

　　 catering costs per invitee.

　　酒席：68美元/人

　　9 per printed wedding invitation.

　　請(qǐng)?zhí)?39美元/版

　　5 per set of miscellaneous party favors.

　　特色婚禮小禮品：275美元/套

　　An average of 43 percent of the total cost of the wedding will be paid for by the parents of thebride, which leaves someone else – namely, you – on the hook for the remaining 57 percent.Greater minds than yours have furrowed their brows in despair at the escalating costs and thelong years of their lives about to spent in making payments on a plan. While many havesurvived this ultimate ordeal, there are plenty more who wonder what demon whispered intheir ear to make them sign on the dotted line and wreck their lives.

　　一般來說，新娘的父母會(huì)支付43%的婚禮開支，這就意味著，剩下的57%由你解決。比你更聰明的人也難免因開支增長或多年縮衣節(jié)食度日而失望、頭大。盡管很多人把這些都挺過去了，但是更多人還是想知道他們是怎么鬼使神差地在結(jié)婚文件上簽了字，以致摧毀了自己的后半生。

　　It's easy to see why many young people of marriageable age choose not to tie the knot. Itsimply costs too much! Being tied to a payment plan is no one's idea of a good start to anyrelationship, particularly one that is scheduled to last for the rest of your natural lives. In fact,there's only one thing that costs more than marriage: Divorce.

　　很多適婚年輕男女選擇不結(jié)婚其實(shí)很好理解，只因婚姻實(shí)在成本過高!想到要縮衣節(jié)食、量米度日，誰還有心思開展人際交往，更不用說要共度余生了!實(shí)際上，世上僅有一件事比結(jié)婚成本更高—那就是離婚!

　　7.Marriage Is Essentially Nothing More Than A Blizzard Of Paperwork