那些讓你更強(qiáng)大的詞語(yǔ)（雙語(yǔ)）

　　摘要：你說(shuō)的話比你想的更強(qiáng)大。大部分人和別人打招呼不會(huì)用強(qiáng)有力的詞語(yǔ)。想想你上次聽(tīng)到別人(或者自己)對(duì)于“你好嗎”的回應(yīng)，總是“哦，一般般”、“就這樣”、“還活著”或者是“還不賴(lài)”。這可能昨天才發(fā)生。用一些能改變你處境的詞語(yǔ)，摘要會(huì)讓你感覺(jué)更強(qiáng)大。

　　The words you use are more powerful than you imagine. Most people greet each other with words that have no power. Think of the last time you heard someone else (or even yourself) respond to a greeting of "How are you?" with "Oh, I am doing so-so," "Hanging in there," "I'm surviving" or "Not too bad." It probably wasn't much past yesterday.

　　你說(shuō)的話比你想的更強(qiáng)大。大部分人和別人打招呼不會(huì)用強(qiáng)有力的詞語(yǔ)。想想你上次聽(tīng)到別人(或者自己)對(duì)于“你好嗎”的回應(yīng)，總是“哦，一般般”、“就這樣”、“還活著”或者是“還不賴(lài)”。這可能昨天才發(fā)生。

　　Try this: Use words to change your situation, not to describe it.

　　試試這個(gè)：用一些能改變你處境的詞語(yǔ)，而不僅僅只是形容這種處境的詞。

　　First, the next time anyone asks, "How are you?" whether it's someone at work or a cashier at the store, respond with strength. Give them an energetic, enthusiastic "Great!" or "Terrific!"

　　首先，下次有人問(wèn)你：“你好嗎?”，不管是工作伙伴還是商店結(jié)賬員，有力地回應(yīng)他們。充滿干勁、熱情地回答“非常好!”、“棒極了!”

　　It will be hard to do without a smile on your face, and you are likely to get one back. Second, you will likely feel a physical response of increased energy. Third, your words will send a message to your mind that will be consistent with feeling Great! or Terrific!

　　如果你臉上沒(méi)有笑容的話這是很難做到的。很有可能你會(huì)受到冷遇。第二，你可能感到身體能量增加。第三，你的言語(yǔ)會(huì)傳遞給你的大腦一種信息，讓你持續(xù)感覺(jué)良好。

　　To see the results, you have to do this often and with sincere enthusiasm (not robotically). When you do, your subconscious mind will begin to act on what you are saying and begin to design your reality to be consistent with your thoughts and words.

　　要看到效果，你必須經(jīng)常這么做，要發(fā)自真心(而不是機(jī)械地)。當(dāng)你這么做的時(shí)候，你潛意識(shí)里開(kāi)始實(shí)踐你在說(shuō)的話，做到言行一致。

　　Yoda from Star Wars, understood this when he commanded Luke Skywalker, "Do or do not. There is no try."

　　星球大戰(zhàn)中的尤達(dá)在給天行者盧克下令的時(shí)候說(shuō)：“要么做要么不做。沒(méi)有嘗試的余地。”

　　Speaking with power also creates a sense of accountability and commitment to get the best from yourself and others. Your challenge is to consciously avoid using words that are power killers. These words sap energy and commitment from your interactions, and ultimately, your actions.

　　說(shuō)話有力同樣也會(huì)產(chǎn)生責(zé)任感和承諾，讓你從自己和別人身上得到益處。難在要有意識(shí)地避免使用虛弱無(wú)力的詞語(yǔ)。這些詞會(huì)削弱你人際交往中的力量和承諾，最后影響你的行動(dòng)。

　　First, eliminate these words from your vocabulary:

　　首先，避免使用這些詞語(yǔ)：

　　Doubt

　　懷疑

　　Try

　　試試

　　I can't

　　我不行

　　If

　　如果

　　I don't think

　　我不認(rèn)為

　　I don't have the time

　　我沒(méi)時(shí)間

　　Maybe

　　可能

　　I'm afraid of

　　恐怕

　　I don't believe

　　我不相信

　　It's impossible.

　　這不可能

　　Omitting these words is not enough. A sports team needs more than just a good defense to win; it also needs a powerful offense. So, mobilize your own offensive assault with the words you choose.

　　僅僅避免這些詞語(yǔ)還不夠。一只體育隊(duì)伍要想贏，不僅僅要會(huì)防守，同樣也需要有力地進(jìn)攻。所以，用你自己的語(yǔ)言來(lái)進(jìn)攻。

　　Build positive mental connections and commitment by using these power builders:

　　用以下強(qiáng)大的詞語(yǔ)從心理上構(gòu)建積極的聯(lián)系和承諾：

　　I can

　　我能

　　Commit

　　我保證

　　I will

　　我會(huì)

　　Expect the best

　　等著最好的

　　I know

　　我知道

　　I will make the time

　　我會(huì)抽出時(shí)間

　　Positively

　　絕對(duì)

　　I am confident

　　我有信心

　　I do believe

　　我相信

　　All things are possible.

　　一切皆有可能。

　　The power of your actions is preceded by the power of your words. Speak with power to bring out the best in yourself and others.

　　你行動(dòng)的力量來(lái)自你言語(yǔ)的力量。充滿力量地說(shuō)話，把你自己和別人最好的一面展現(xiàn)出來(lái)。