美國人的教養(yǎng)觀是怎樣的呢?對美國人而言，教養(yǎng)的目標(biāo)在于幫助孩子們自立更生。從嬰幼兒期開始，每一個孩子都可能擁有自己的房間;隨著孩子的成長，他們有更多機(jī)會自己作決定;青少年們選擇自己喜歡的娛樂方式

　　aising Children 美式教養(yǎng)觀

　　The job of raising children is a tough one. Children don't come with an instruction manual. And each child is different. So parents sometimes pull their hair out in frustration, not knowing what to do. But in raising children-as in all of life-what we do is influenced by our culture. Naturally then, American parents teach their children basic American values.

　　To Americans, the goal of parents is to help children stand on their own two feet. From infancy, each child may get his or her own room. As children grow, they gain more freedom to make their own choices. Teenagers choose their own forms of entertainment, as well as the friends to share them with. When they reach young adulthood, they choose their own careers and marriage partners. Of course, many young adults still seek their parents' advice and approval for the choices they make. But once they "leave the nest" at around 18 to 21 years old, they want to be on their own, not "tied to their mother's apron strings."

　　養(yǎng)育孩子是件傷腦筋的差事，孩子們并不是生下來就附有說明書的，而每個孩子又都不盡相同，所以有時候父母們真是挫折地扯光了頭發(fā)，還不知該怎幺辦。然而以教養(yǎng)孩子而言，就像生活中所有的事一樣，我們的行為都受文化的影響，因此，美國父母很自然地會教導(dǎo)他們的孩子基本的美國價值觀。

　　對美國人而言，教養(yǎng)的目標(biāo)在于幫助孩子們自立更生。從嬰幼兒期開始，每一個孩子都可能擁有自己的房間;隨著孩子的成長，他們有更多機(jī)會自己作決定;青少年們選擇自己喜歡的娛樂方式，以及跟什幺樣的朋友一起玩;當(dāng)他們進(jìn)入了青年期之后，他們選擇自己的事業(yè)和結(jié)婚伴侶。當(dāng)然，很多的年輕人在作選擇時，還是會尋求父母的忠告和贊同，但是當(dāng)他們一旦在十八到二十一歲左右「離了巢」之后，就希望能夠獨(dú)立，不再是個離不開媽媽的孩子了。