情感英語(yǔ)哲理美文
英語(yǔ)美文用簡(jiǎn)單溫暖的文字、真實(shí)動(dòng)人的情感傳達(dá)語(yǔ)言之美,讓讀者在閱讀之后,感同身受,觸動(dòng)心靈。通過(guò)英語(yǔ)美文,不僅能夠感受語(yǔ)言之美,領(lǐng)悟語(yǔ)言之用，還能產(chǎn)生學(xué)習(xí)語(yǔ)言的興趣。度過(guò)一段美好的時(shí)光，即感悟生活，觸動(dòng)心靈。下面是學(xué)習(xí)啦小編為大家?guī)?lái)情感英語(yǔ)哲理美文，希望大家喜歡!
情感英語(yǔ)哲理美文：情暖今生
It was well after mid night, wrapped in my warm 1)fleecy robe I stood silently staring out the ninth floor window of the daunting New York hospital. I was staring at the 59th Street Bridge. It was as sparkling and beautiful as a Christmas tree. New York city has always been special to me; the Broadway theatre, the music, the restaurants from the 2)deli's to the 3)Tavern-On-the-Green. "This is what the city is supposed to be about, " I thought, 4)dreading the morning to come and all the uncertainty it held. But the morning did come and at nine a.m. on that March 17th, I was wheeled into an operating room. Eleven hours and forty-five minutes later I was wheeled into a recovery room and a very few hours after being returned to my own hospital room I found myself actually on my feet, half walking, half 5)propelled by medical equipment and members of my family. The orders were to walk the length and back of the long hospital corridor.
時(shí)間早就過(guò)了午夜了，在雄偉威嚴(yán)的紐約醫(yī)院，我裹在暖暖的羊毛睡袍里，靜靜地站在九樓病房的窗前凝視窗外。我看著眼前的第59街大橋，它像圣誕樹(shù)般閃閃發(fā)光，美麗動(dòng)人。在我心中，紐約一直有一個(gè)特別的位置，有百老匯的戲院，音樂(lè)，和形形色色、檔次各異的餐館。“這個(gè)城市本來(lái)就應(yīng)該是這樣的，”我想著，對(duì)即將到來(lái)的一天和它將帶來(lái)的未知之?dāng)?shù)感到異常擔(dān)心。但那天還是來(lái)了，就在那天，3月17日的早上9點(diǎn)，我被推進(jìn)了手術(shù)室。11個(gè)小時(shí)45分鐘后，我又被推進(jìn)了療養(yǎng)室，在被送回自己的病房后，僅僅幾個(gè)小時(shí)，我就已經(jīng)能下地行走了——一半是自己在走，一半是被醫(yī)療器械和家人推著走。按醫(yī)囑，我要在醫(yī)院的長(zhǎng)廊里走一個(gè)來(lái)回。
It was then that I first saw him. I saw him through a haze of, drug pain and the dreamy unreality that this could be happening to me. He was standing in the doorway of a hospital room. In my twilight, unfocused state I saw him almost as a spirit shape rather than a full blown person. Yet the body language of this shape was somehow sending out sympathy and encouragement to me.
就在那時(shí)，我第一次看到他。在藥物和疼痛的作用下，透過(guò)朦朧的雙眼，我看到了他，那景象就如同虛幻的夢(mèng)境，我也不肯定自己究竟看到了什么。他當(dāng)時(shí)正站在一間病房的門口。我當(dāng)時(shí)正處于那種視力模糊的懵懂狀態(tài)中，而他對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)，就像個(gè)幽靈，而不是一個(gè)完整的人影。但我還是能感覺(jué)得到這個(gè)影像的身體語(yǔ)言中所流露出的對(duì)我的同情和鼓勵(lì)。
This became my daily routine for the next three weeks. As I gained a little more strength the man would be standing in the doorway, smiling and nodding as I would pass with one or more members of my family. On the fourth week I was allowed to solo up the corridor. As I passed his room, there was my faithful friend in the doorway. He was a slender dark complexioned man. I stopped a minute to chat. He introduced me to his wife and his son who was lying 6)listlessly in a hospital bed. The next day as I made my scheduled walk, he came out and walked with me to my room. He explained that he and his wife had brought their teenage son to this hospital of hope from Iran. They were still hoping but things were not going well. He told me of how I had encouraged him on that first dreadful night's walking tour and how he was 7)rooting for me. For three more weeks we continued our conversation each giving the other the gift of caring and friendship. He told me of how he enjoyed seeing my family as they 8)rallied around me and I was saddened by the loneliness of that small family so far from home.
在以后的三個(gè)星期里，在醫(yī)院的長(zhǎng)廊里行走成了我必做的功課。在我的力氣稍微恢復(fù)之后，我在家人的陪同下走過(guò)他站立的門口，我會(huì)看到他站在那里向我微笑、點(diǎn)頭。到了第四個(gè)星期，我可以自己在長(zhǎng)廊上走了，每當(dāng)我經(jīng)過(guò)他的房間，我這位忠實(shí)的朋友都會(huì)站在門口。這是一個(gè)膚色稍黑，身體瘦小的男人。我停下來(lái)與他談了一會(huì)兒。他把我介紹給他的妻子和兒子。他兒子沒(méi)精打采地躺在病床上。第二天，我又按時(shí)地在走廊里走動(dòng)，他從房間里走出來(lái)，陪我走回我的病房。他告訴我，他和他的妻子滿懷希望地把他十幾歲的兒子從伊朗帶到這家醫(yī)院。盡管現(xiàn)在他們還是抱有希望，但情況確實(shí)不容樂(lè)觀。他告訴我，我手術(shù)后第一個(gè)難熬的晚上艱辛的行走使他受到了鼓舞，他也在暗暗為我加油。在接下來(lái)的三個(gè)多星期里，我們?cè)谝黄鸾徽?，互相關(guān)心，彼此關(guān)愛(ài)。他很高興看到我的家人很關(guān)心和支持我，而我也為這個(gè)三口之家因遠(yuǎn)離家園而孤立無(wú)援而暗自傷感。
Miraculously, there did come a day when the doctor told me I would be discharged the following morning. That night I told my friend. The next morning he came to my room. I had been up and dressed since dawn. My bright yellow dress gave me hope, and I almost looked human. We talked a bit. I told him I would pray for his son. He thanked me but shrugged his shoulders indicating the hopelessness. We knew we would never see each other again, in this world. This man in his sorrow was so happy for me. I felt his love. He took my hand and said, "You are my sister." I answered back and said, "You are my brother". He turned and left the room.
就像奇跡一般，終于有一天醫(yī)生告訴我說(shuō)，第二天我就可以出院了。那晚，我把這個(gè)消息告訴了我的朋友。第二天一早，他來(lái)到我的房間。那天，我早早地就起床了，并換好了衣服。我那鮮黃色的衣服給了我希望。我總算看起來(lái)又像個(gè)人了。我們倆談了一會(huì)兒。我對(duì)他說(shuō)，我會(huì)為他的兒子祈禱的。他在感謝我的同時(shí)，聳了聳肩，流露出失望之情。我們都知道在這個(gè)世界上，我們?cè)僖膊粫?huì)見(jiàn)面了。這個(gè)憂傷的人很為我感到高興，我能感受到他對(duì)我的關(guān)愛(ài)。他握著我的手說(shuō)：“你就是我的妹妹。”我回答道：“你就是我的哥哥。”說(shuō)完，他轉(zhuǎn)過(guò)身，走出了房間。
My family came to 9)retrieve me. Doctors and nurse to say their goodbyes and give orders. All business had been taken care of. After seven and a half weeks I was leaving the hospital room I had walked into with so much trepidation.
我的家人來(lái)接我了。醫(yī)生和護(hù)士向我道別，囑咐我出院后該怎么做。所有事情都安排得妥妥當(dāng)當(dāng)。在我懷著忐忑不安的心情走進(jìn)醫(yī)院的七個(gè)半星期后，我終于要離開(kāi)我的病房了。
As I turned to walk down the corridor to the elevator, my brother stood in the doorway, smiling, nodding and giving his blessing.
就在我沿著走廊向電梯走去時(shí)，我哥哥站在他的病房門口，沖我微笑點(diǎn)頭，傳遞著他的祝福。
It was 14 years ago today on March 17th 1990 that I entered that operating room and much has happened to the world since my brother and I said our last farewell. Yet I think of him often and he is always in my heart as I feel I am in his. I remember his 10)intense, dark brown eyes as we pledged ourselves as brother and sister. At that moment, I knew without a doubt that the Spirit of God hovered over us smiling, nodding and blessing us with the knowledge that we are all one.
我進(jìn)手術(shù)室的那天，也就是14年前的今天，1990年3月17日。自從我與我哥哥告別后，這個(gè)世界發(fā)生了很大的變化。但我還是經(jīng)常會(huì)想起他，他一直都在我的心里，而我相信我也一直在他心中。我記得我們互稱兄妹時(shí)，他那雙真誠(chéng)的深褐色的眼睛。在那一刻，我知道上帝正在天堂微笑地看著我們，向我們點(diǎn)頭，為我們祝福。因?yàn)樗?，我們不分彼此?/p>
Many times I have pondered over the years why we humans meet our dearest friends or bond so deeply with another person when we are most 11)vulnerable. I think it is because when we face a life threatening illnes job los whatever the catastrophe may be; we are left completely without any pretension and our hearts and souls are open to those around us and we are able to accept the love and kindnesses of other almost freely and thankfully as children accept love. This kind of love is blind to race, color and creed and leads to a pair of dark brown eyes seeking a pair of very blue eyes and pledging a love that will last through time.
在過(guò)去的歲月里，我不止一次在想，為什么人會(huì)在最脆弱的時(shí)候認(rèn)識(shí)我們生命中最親密的朋友，與另一個(gè)人結(jié)成最緊密的紐帶也在這時(shí)結(jié)成。我認(rèn)為，這是因?yàn)樵谖覀兠鎸?duì)危及生命的疾病、失業(yè)，或者其它災(zāi)難時(shí)，我們所有的偽裝都會(huì)褪去，我們的心靈都會(huì)向周圍的人敞開(kāi)，接受來(lái)自他人的關(guān)愛(ài)和好意，差不多就像孩童那樣，毫無(wú)芥蒂并心存感激承接愛(ài)。這種愛(ài)與種族、膚色、信仰無(wú)關(guān)，也正是這種愛(ài)，讓那雙深褐色的眼睛和那雙深藍(lán)色眼睛相遇，并發(fā)誓永遠(yuǎn)彼此關(guān)愛(ài)。
情感英語(yǔ)哲理美文：不要這樣毀了愛(ài)情
It's not easy to have a great relationship with your boy/girlfriend, partner, or spouse. Here are a few of the things that cause people to destroy their own relationships。
想要維系和戀人、伴侶或愛(ài)人的感情并不是一件容易的事情。人們是這樣毀了他們的愛(ài)情的：
1.You're playing to win
你們總是想要贏對(duì)方
One of the deadliest killers of relationships is the competitive urge, the attitude that the relationship itself is a kind of game that you're tying to win. People in competitive relationships are always looking for an advantage, the upper hand, some edge they can hold over their partner's head。
愛(ài)情的一大致命殺手就是競(jìng)爭(zhēng)欲望：把感情當(dāng)作比賽，總是想要贏過(guò)對(duì)方。處在競(jìng)爭(zhēng)關(guān)系中的人總是想要尋找自己的優(yōu)勢(shì)，占盡上風(fēng)，盡握對(duì)方的把柄。
2.You don't trust
你們不信任彼此
There are two aspects of trust that are important in relationships. One is trusting your partner enough to know that s/he won't cheat on you or otherwise hurt you — and to know that he or she trusts you that way, too. The other is trusting them enough to know they won't leave you or stop loving you no matter what you do or say。
感情的信任包括兩層含義：足夠信任你的伴侶，明白他不會(huì)欺騙也不會(huì)傷害你，同時(shí)也了解他也是如此的信任著你;足夠信任你的愛(ài)人，明白不管你說(shuō)什么做什么，他都不會(huì)離開(kāi)或者不再愛(ài)你。
3. You don't talk
你們不交流
Too many people hold their tongues about things that bother or upset them in their relationship, either because they don't want to hurt their partner, or because they're trying to win. Ultimately, keeping quiet reflects a lack of trust — and, as I said that's the death of a relationship。
太多的人沉默無(wú)言，對(duì)感情中讓他們煩惱或者不安的細(xì)節(jié)只字不提，也許是因?yàn)椴幌雮?duì)方，也許是因?yàn)樘胍A而不愿意示弱。緘默不語(yǔ)其實(shí)是缺乏信任的表現(xiàn)，這是愛(ài)情的死穴。
4. You don't listen
你們不傾聽(tīng)
Listening — really listening — is hard. It's normal to want to defend ourselves when we hear something that seems like criticism, so instead of really hearing someone out, we interrupt to explain or excuse ourselves, or we turn inward to prepare our defense. If you can't listen actively, at least to the person you love, there's a problem。
真正的傾聽(tīng)很難。聽(tīng)到類似批評(píng)的話語(yǔ)時(shí)，我們想要為自己辯護(hù)，這很正常，所以我們不聽(tīng)對(duì)方把話說(shuō)完就開(kāi)始打斷，解釋，為自己找借口，或者在心中準(zhǔn)備防守。如果對(duì)你愛(ài)的人你都無(wú)法主動(dòng)傾聽(tīng)，那就有問(wèn)題了。
5. You spend like a single person
你還像個(gè)單身的人過(guò)活
When you're single, you can buy whatever you want, whenever you want, with little regard for the future. It's not necessarily wise, but you're the only one who has to pay the consequences. When you are with someone in a long-term relationship, that is no longer a possibility. If you're spending money as if it was your money and nobody else has a right to tell you what to do with it, your relationship is doomed。
單身的時(shí)候，想買什么買什么，隨時(shí)隨地隨心所欲，一點(diǎn)不想著將來(lái)。這很不明智，但是我們是唯一要為后果付出代價(jià)的人。當(dāng)你長(zhǎng)期跟某人交往時(shí)，這一切就不再成為可能。如果你還是像以前一樣大手大腳覺(jué)得別人沒(méi)權(quán)利對(duì)你指手畫(huà)腳，那么你們的感情就完了。
6. You're afraid of breaking up
你們總是害怕會(huì)分手
Nobody in a truly happy partnership is afraid of breaking up. If you are, that's a big warning sign that something's wrong. But often, what's wrong is the fear itself. Not only does it betray a lack of trust, but it shows a lack of self-confidence and self-esteem. Quite frankly, this isn't going to be very satisfying for you, and it also isn't going to be very satisfying for your partner。
擁有真正幸福感情的人是不會(huì)害怕分手的。如果你在擔(dān)心，那就是在警告你，有些東西不太對(duì)勁。但經(jīng)常真正不對(duì)勁的是害怕情緒的本身，它不僅泄露了你對(duì)對(duì)方的不信任，也是你自身缺乏自信自尊的表現(xiàn)。坦白說(shuō)，如果你對(duì)這段感情不滿意，那你的愛(ài)人又怎么會(huì)滿足呢?
7. You're dependent
你太依賴對(duì)方
There's a thin line between companionship and support and dependency. If you depend on your partner — that is, if you absolutely cannot live without her or him — you've crossed that line. The pressure is now on your partner to fill whatever's missing in you — a pressure s/he will learn to resent。
互相扶持還是太過(guò)依賴，只在一念之間。如果你事事依賴對(duì)方(也就是說(shuō)你離了他/她就活不了)，你就越界了。你身上的壓力全部轉(zhuǎn)嫁到你的愛(ài)人身上，這樣的壓力，會(huì)讓他/她最終怨恨你。
8. You expect happiness
你以為愛(ài)情里只有幸福
A sign of a bad relationship is that one or both partners expect either to make the other happy or for their partner to make them happy. This is not only an unrealistic expectation to lay on yourself or on them — nobody can "make" you happy, except you — but it's an unrealistic expectation to lay on your relationship. Relationships aren't only about being happy, and there's lots of times when you won't and even shouldn't be。
一段糟糕的感情，其中一個(gè)信號(hào)就是期望對(duì)方會(huì)讓自己幸福，或者以為自己會(huì)讓對(duì)方幸福。這不僅僅是你對(duì)自己或者對(duì)方的不切實(shí)際的期望(要知道除了你自己沒(méi)人能讓你幸福)，也是你對(duì)感情不現(xiàn)實(shí)的幻想。一段感情，不僅僅是快樂(lè)和幸福，還有很多痛苦、悲傷和難過(guò)的時(shí)刻。
9. You never fight
你們從來(lái)不吵架
A good argument is essential, every now and then. In part, arguing helps bring out the little stuff before it becomes major, but also, fighting expresses anger which is a perfectly normal part of a human's emotional make-up. Your relationship has to be strong enough to hold all of who you are, not just the sunny stuff。
偶爾的爭(zhēng)論很重要。從某種程度上來(lái)說(shuō)，爭(zhēng)吵可以在大問(wèn)題出現(xiàn)前就消化掉根源的小矛盾。通過(guò)爭(zhēng)吵表達(dá)憤怒，也是我們情感渲泄最完美的方法。你們的感情要足夠牢固，可以包容你們的所有一切，而不只是快樂(lè)陽(yáng)光的一面。
10. You expect it to be easy/you expect it to be hard
你以為感情很容易/很難
There are two deeply problematic attitudes about relationships. One is that a relationship should be easy, that if you really love each other and are meant to be together, it will work itself out. The other is that anything worth having is going to be hard — and that therefore if it's hard, it must be worth having. The outcome of both views is that you don't work at your relationship and quickly get burnt out。
有兩種觀點(diǎn)對(duì)感情的理解非常不對(duì)：一種認(rèn)為維系感情很容易，如果真的深愛(ài)彼此注定會(huì)在一起，那就順其自然，車到山前必有路;一種認(rèn)為只有歷盡艱險(xiǎn)才能值得擁有，所以既然經(jīng)過(guò)各種磨難和艱苦，那這段感情肯定值得擁有。這兩種觀點(diǎn)的結(jié)果是，你不會(huì)經(jīng)營(yíng)感情，而愛(ài)的花火也會(huì)很快熄滅。
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