俞敏洪:相信奮斗的力量（雙語）

比如說現(xiàn)在的小年輕，我常常覺得很痛苦，為什么呢?第一個，虛榮心特別地強，虛榮心強他關(guān)注的什么呢?他關(guān)注的不是自己生活的狀態(tài)，他關(guān)注的是周邊人跟自己的比較以后，我能不能勝過周邊人。比如說中國人結(jié)婚以后，中國的女人比自己的丈夫，比的最多的就是你看你看，你的同學(xué)怎么怎么樣了。你看你看，隔壁的老張怎么樣了，完了以后你看你這個窩囊廢，到現(xiàn)在還這個樣子。她從來不去想這個丈夫本身的好處在什么地方，他的優(yōu)缺點在什么地方，她是通過個人比較，而比較的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)又特別地庸俗，不是比較對方更有錢，就是比較對方地位更高了。隔壁老張都升了局長了，你這窩囊廢，你跟他是同班同學(xué)，你現(xiàn)在還是個處長，你看你怎么活的，還不如我嫁給老張算了，好面子就變成了一個人奮斗的動力，而不是說真正的追求幸福的這個心態(tài)去變成自己奮斗的動力，所以現(xiàn)在比如說很多年輕人都是貸款，買房買車，完了變成了房奴和車奴，完了生活就被毀掉了。為什么呢?因為你在年紀(jì)輕輕的時候就背上了負(fù)擔(dān)以后，你有了一份工作你就不敢扔了，(被)鎖在一份工作上當(dāng)然很好，表面上你很專注，但是另外一個方向就是，你失去了一切讓自己的生命可以在其它方向騰飛的機會。

　　For example, young now, I often feel very painful, why? First, particularly strong vanity, vanity strong he pay attention to what? He is not concerned with his life, he is concerned with the comparison of the surrounding people with their own future, I can not overcome the surrounding people. For example Chinese after marriage, China woman than her husband, than the most is you see you see, what your classmates. You see, how the next Zhang, after you see you this loser, still like this. She never went to the husband's own benefit in what place, what advantages and disadvantages in his place, she is the person comparison, and comparison criteria and in particular the vulgar, not to compare each other more money, is the position of the other side is higher. The next I raised the Secretary, you loser, you and he are classmates, you are still a director, you see how you live, not as good as I marry I forget it, good face became a power struggle, but is not that the mind and the pursuit of happiness to be true their power struggle, so now, like many young people buy a house to buy a car loan, a mortgage slave, finished and car mortgage slave, life has been destroyed. Why? Because after you when age gently on the back of the burden, you have a job you don't throw, (be) lock in a job is good, on the surface you are focused, but another direction is, you lose all your life can take off in the other the direction of the opportunity.

　　我當(dāng)初之所以敢從北大出來，當(dāng)初我自信地從北大出來，很簡單，我沒房沒車，北大給我安排的當(dāng)時的宿舍就是十平米的宿舍，我想這十平米的宿舍不住也罷。所以出來，天地都在我身邊，就這種感覺，所以你不怕丟。一個人要不怕丟，因為你怕丟什么東西都不可能得到，你想談戀愛你就可能失戀了。你想找工作你就可能會失業(yè)了。你要想高興就可能會失落。你想創(chuàng)業(yè)你就可能會失敗，所以失可能比你得還要更加地重要。

　　I'm from the north, at the outset I confidently from the north, is very simple, I have no house no car, north to my arrangement of the dormitory is ten square meters of dormitory, I think this ten square meters of dormitory not worth mentioning. So, the world is all in my side, just this kind of feeling, so you are not afraid of losing. A person should not be afraid of losing, because you are afraid of losing what things are impossible to get, you want to fall in love you may love. You want to find a job you may be unemployed. You want to be happy may be lost. You want to start you may fail, so the loss may be more important than you have to.

　　至于說我們的家庭背景，我在大學(xué)演講的時候會遇到很多學(xué)生來跟我討論問題，有同學(xué)說俞老師你看，你看我的同學(xué)，他們擁有無數(shù)的社會資源，現(xiàn)在社會資源越來越集中，完了像我們這樣窮人家來的孩子，我們已經(jīng)爭取不到這個機會，這個世界是如此地不公平，我們這些人該怎么辦?這個世界從來就沒有公平過，即使你到美國，也不可能有這樣的公平，但是中國其實還有另外一個好處，中國從來沒有社會，真正的社會階層等級概念。你從一個最普通的老百姓，只要你愿意奮斗出來，你就會被人一視同仁。所以盡管我們會發(fā)現(xiàn)周圍有資源的人會比你更早地?fù)碛匈Y源，但是人生不是百米賽跑，讓他們先得到好了，你給自己一輩子，這個自信人生二百年，會當(dāng)擊水三千里，我們也許活不到二百年，但是一百年總可以吧。所以在我大學(xué)畢業(yè)的時候，全班同學(xué)畢業(yè)典禮上，大家每個人都要上去表態(tài)，我上去說的我到今天還依依稀稀記得。我說同學(xué)們大家都很厲害，你們的學(xué)習(xí)成績都那么好，但是請大家相信我不會放棄自己，你們做了五年的事情，我做十年，你們做十年的我做二十年，你們做二十年的我做四十年，實在不行，這輩子我要保持健康心態(tài)，保持心情愉快，身體健康，到了八十歲以后，把你們一個一個送走了，我再走。

　　As for our family background, when I was in University speech will encounter a lot of students to talk with me, some students said Yu teacher you see, you see my classmates, they have a lot of social resources, social resources are now more and more concentrated, finished like us poor to children, we have to in this opportunity, the world is so unfair, we these people how to do? This world was never fair, even if you go American, it is impossible to have such a fair, but Chinese actually have another benefit, Chinese never society, the real social hierarchy concept. You from one of the most ordinary people, as long as you are willing to fight for it, you will be make no exception. So although we will find the resources around them will earlier than you have the resources, but life is not a 100 meter race, let them get good, you give yourself a lifetime, this two hundred years of self-confidence in life, when will Jishui 3000, we may not live to two hundred years, but one hundred years total. So when I graduated from the University, the class graduation ceremony, everyone will go to statement, I said to this day I still remember so thin. I said the classmates all very much, your grades are so good, but please believe that I won't give up yourself, you do the things I do for five years, ten years, you have ten years of me for twenty years, you have twenty years to do forty years, it is not, in this life I want to maintain a healthy state of mind, to maintain a pleasant mood, physical health, after eighty years old, give you a go, I go.

　　其實人生奮斗沒法比，每個人都有自己的事業(yè)，每個人都有自己的人生，最重要的什么呢?你跟自己比，就你跟自己比，你的今天是不是比昨天好，你的明天是不是比今天好，你的明年會不會比今年好，十年以后的你會不會比十年前站在這的今天的你要更好。還有的同學(xué)很有意思來問我說俞老師你看，我這個長相不怎么樣，也影響了我的事業(yè)發(fā)展。比如說我去面試的時候，人家老板一看我長得這副挫樣，他就不要我了。我說你敢這么說，說明你內(nèi)心還是有點自信的，所以人是什么呢，人在三十歲以前長相可能是有一定的關(guān)系的。女孩子就算你再漂亮，過了三十歲你還能說老娘長得很妖嬈嗎?這感覺不對吧?就是說人是要有一點外表上的干凈利落的感覺，但是到此為止了。一個男人天天在鏡子面前花半個小時打扮自己，我真看到過這樣的男人，半個小時都不止，我覺得男人連鏡子都不應(yīng)該照的。你要知道，你這么好的時間你不用在讓自己的生命變得更加有魅力上面，有什么用呢?你再打扮，你能不老嗎?你再打扮到年紀(jì)大了，你能皺紋不上臉嗎?當(dāng)你皺紋上臉的(時候)，皺紋中透露出的是庸俗還是透露的是智慧，這全是你現(xiàn)在要做的事情，所以同學(xué)們長相跟你沒關(guān)系。有一次一個小男孩，我在演講的時候跑上來，很矮。他說俞老師，我這樣一個人，在男人堆里找不到自己，在女人堆里我也找不到自己，實在太矮了，他說你看我這輩子怎么辦?我說，你知道魯迅多高嗎?1米58。你知道鄧小平多高嗎?1米57。你知道拿破侖多高嗎?1米56。我說你多高，他說我1米55，我說你知道你應(yīng)該變成什么樣的人了吧。

　　In fact, life immeasurably, everyone has their own business, everyone has their own life, what is the most important? You tell yourself, you compare yourself, you Is it right? Today is better than yesterday, tomorrow you would Is it right? Better than today, you will next year than this year, ten years later, you will be better than ten years ago in this of you today. The students also very interesting to ask me that Yu teacher you see, my appearance is not how, also affected my career development. For example, when I went to the interview, boss look I have this pair of frustration, he do not want me. I say you dare to say so, that your heart is still a little self-confidence, so what is it, before thirty years old appearance may have a certain relationship. The girl even if you re beautiful, over the age of thirty you can say I am very enchanting? This doesn't feel right? That is to say the person should have a point on the surface of the smooth and clean feeling, but so far. A man every day in front of the mirror takes half an hour to dress myself, I really saw this man, more than half an hour, I think the man should not be taken even mirror. You know, you're such a good time you don't have to let my life become more attractive above, what is the use? You dress up again, can you not old? You go up to the older, you can wrinkle is not on the face? When you wrinkles on the face (time), revealed the wrinkles is vulgar or disclose is wisdom, this is all you have to do something now, so the students looks like you never mind. Once a little boy, I ran up during speeches, very short. He said Mr. Yu, I am such a person, not to find himself in the pile of men, in the woman that I can not find myself, really too short, he said that you see in this life I do? I said, do you know Lu Xun high? 1 meters 58. You know, Deng Xiaoping how high? 1 meters 57. You know how tall is Napoleon? 1 meters 56. I say you how high, he said I 1 m 55, I say you know you should become what kind of person.

　　人生是自己的選擇，你要把自己變成的是一個能夠不是對得起自己長相，而是對得起自己的內(nèi)心，對得起自己的能力的人，應(yīng)該是這樣去做的。所以同學(xué)們，大家一起共同努力，只要你自己相信，奮斗能讓你改變自己，你的生命一定會越來越燦爛，我的演講到此為止，謝謝大家!

　　Life is a choice, you have to turn yourself into a can not live up to their appearance, but to live up to his heart, to pay their own capacity, should be to do so. So the students, everyone together, as long as you believe, strive to let you change yourself, your life will be more and more brilliant, my speech so far, thank you!